Bringing in Good Kids: "The Golden Child Method"
Today while sorting out my old stuff, I chanced upon an old printed copy of Bringing in Good Kids "The Golden Child Method" by Sally Huss. It is really great to read it again and I think it is awesome! I am posting it here just to share with all mothers around the world, especially expectant mothers. Here it is:
Bringing in Good Kids: "The Golden Child Method"
Copyright 2008 Sally Huss
Every expectant mother's dream is to have a beautiful, happy, healthy baby and raise a "good kid," one who will grow up to be a useful, caring, sharing, helpful, healthy, positive, productive human being.
An expectant mother wants to raise a good kid who will turn into a good adult. She wants the best -- the best for her child and in turn a child who will be best for the world. Mothers are high-minded and they should have what they want.
But, how to do this is the trick. Anyone who has raised a child knows that this is easier said than done. Most have the idea that you "bring up" a good kid. You start with whatever you receive and develop that child as best you can. Naturally, all babies appear "good" at birth. They are cute, cuddly and can do no wrong. Then, at some point in their development their selfish natures come into play and the disharmonies begin.
Far easier than "bring up" a good kid is "bringing in" one. There is a way to do this called the "Golden Child Method." There is, of course, no guarantee that there will not be some friction, some difficulties, but for the high-minded mother who uses this method, there will be ample rewards to know her efforts were worth it. What mother wouldn't want a Golden Child, a shiny penny, a sparkle-plenty for a kid?
This is how the Golden Child Method works.
Once pregnant, an expectant mother must assume that what is growing inside of her is all ears, all eyes, all feeling. It is like a very alert and sensitive sponge. Everything given to it, it accepts without discrimination. It has no protection or screening process. It simply sops it up. It is totally vulnerable to its environment -- good or bad. And, it is vulnerable on all levels -- physical, mental, emotional and even etheric (the subtle or higher energy system.) In the Golden Child Method a woman must "go for the gold" on all levels.
Gold is the key word here. Gold is the highest and finest metal we have. It is like a little bit of sunlight, hardened into a form for us to hold in our hands.
Gold is like the sun and the sun is great. Without the sun there would be no life on earth. It gives us life. The sun is like God and God is good (less one "O".) So, having a Golden Child is a very good thing indeed!
Now to the process -- going for the gold on all levels, which means going for the best, the highest, the finest, the greatest a woman can provide for her unborn child. Most expectant mothers are aware of the need for good nutrition during their pregnancy. They tend to eat better knowing that they are eating for two. The embryo in turn will take whatever it needs to build its own body and if nutrients aren't provided in abundance it will steal from the mother, robbing her body.
The expectant mother must, therefore, make sure all ingredients are provided and that they are of the highest quality. Quality was a factor in the building materials used by the three little pigs in their home constructions. Their choices made a big difference in what they built. The unborn baby needs the best possible raw materials to build its home, its body. So, the mother must feed her baby well even before it is born.
What else does an expectant mother feed her child before birth? She feeds her thoughts and the thoughts of those around her. They too must be golden. They must be positive, happy, joyful thoughts, and good ideas. The sponge will accept what it is given.
Thoughts come in the form of what people say, TV shows, newspapers, books, Internet information, plays, movies, etc. A mother must choose well. An expectant mother must choose her words and subject matter well when speaking, choose books by brilliant, inspired authors to read, and stay away from negative discussions, violent TV shows and movies, etc.
What else does this expectant mother feed her child before birth? Emotions. Feelings. A Golden Child, even while in the womb, needs happy, positive feelings. Music and poetry, books of art, museum visits, and walks in nature evoke good feelings fit for a king. By providing the king or queen within with royal emotions a mother will reap what she has sown. A future mother must feel the best that she can feel and her unborn child will feel it too, and become comfortable and in harmony with right feelings when born. Nothing is too good for a regal Golden Child.
What else does a mother feed her unborn child? Breath. Breath is life, and in the air that a future mother breathes are all of the subtle energies of a higher nature needed to nurture the spirit.
Not everyone knows that air is rich. It appears to be merely empty space around objects, but it is a very valuable warehouse of everything a person might need, such as courage, truthfulness, will power, creativity, love, faith, etc. A person only has to breathe it in and it is there! A woman may breathe in anything she wants for her child in the realm of qualities. When doing so, she must do it in conjunction with the heart -- breathing in the feeling of what she wants. By concentrating a few minutes a day on specific qualities, a woman can work miracles for her child. She plants the seeds she wants to grow and they will become elements in the garden of her child's nature.
The future child is always in the environment of its mother, completely naive, taking it all in. The environment must be the best, as golden as a mother can make it. A simple visualization exercise every morning and night will set the tone for her days and keep the importance of her task before her. Any image of gold that comes to mind may be used to give the idea of the finest and brightest. The rising sun with its purity, brightness and golden glow has the right quality.
This gold may be breathed in and imagined to permeate the whole being of the mother and child. As the gold fills the entire being of mother and child, it begins to spread outward into space. The mother may dwell for a few moments on what she wants for her child (qualities, health, happiness, etc.) and how much her child will benefit others by his or her brilliance. All is well that starts well and this will be a child that has started well.
One more thought on the feeding of this future Golden Child: in some countries animals such as geese are force-fed. An unborn child can also in a manner of speaking be force-fed. If there is something a mother particularly wants her child to excel in or to have an interest in she may concentrate some of her energies to supplying the information the child would need to accomplish this. For example, it might be to be a great scholar or writer. In this case the mother would feed the child by readying volumes of great literature. There are cases where very unattractive couples have created most beautiful children by simply concentrating on beauty. Great musicians, artists, poets, linguists, and scientist can be started along their paths very early by the help of a conscientious mother.
Once the child is born a mother's most important work is done. That does not mean she needs to lower her standards. To continue to nourish and educate her child in the best ways she knows how is, of course, a must. But, she too will have benefited by her golden ideals and work, and her own being, which is always growing and developing, will also be enriched by her efforts.
Bringing in a good kid is the most important thing a woman can do and only a woman can do it! Women hold the power because they determine the quality of the next generation. Hopefully, they will pick men of quality; create an environment of quality to nourish their unborn children in order to bare children of the highest quality -- good kids! Golden Children! And, the world will thank them for it.
THANK YOU SALLY HUSS!!